That's my O!

I haven't talked much about my boyfriend O on this blog but that doesn't mean he isn't heavily on my mind. When I moved to Dallas, I didn't think our relationship would last and even still, I'm not sure if it will. Nothing is guaranteed, right? Nothing except for change and death. Anyway, one thing that I can say about O is that he is very supportive of me. He treats me with the utmost respect, he's not too jealous, and most importantly, he understands me. Now when I first met O, I didn't think there would be a relationship at all. We were introduced by mutual friends and he wanted to know who "the girl in the green car" was. I didn't really pay him much attention because, frankly, I thought he was ugly. He wasn't someone that I automatically became attracted to upon meeting. My best friend was like, "somebody likes you". I was like, "I don't have time for this. Who is it?" So she told me it was O and immediately I said, "uh, are you serious? He is not cute!'. But, I still ended up hooking up with him anyway. He was real cool. I felt comfortable around him and he was a genuinely nice guy. We ended up having long phone conversations and lunch dates. (We worked at the same hospital) Eventually, I didn't care too much about his looks. As a matter of a fact, I then perceived him as a very handsome guy. To this day, my mom says he looks like he's from Africa, but I don't care, he's sexy to me! One day she told him, "Shut your African looking ass up!" Ha Ha! I fell out laughing. That shit was funny. Anyhoo, O and I have come a long way. We've been dating for over 3 years and we're still going strong. I just hope and pray that the future will bring us closer together (physically) because I'm not feeling the distance between us, yet the love I have for him is too strong to let it tear us apart. I love you O!